How to cover up in church for evening formal wedding

I have two questions.

1. I will be attending a formal evening wedding in Houston in April. The dress I might wear covers about as much of my chest as a tank top (scoop neck, one inch wide straps). It looks pretty respectable; it's not too revealing. Do I need a wrap for a 7 p.m. church wedding,.... [Read more]

Getting married in the catholic church, not religious

My fiance and I were both raised in the Roman Catholic church but neither of us are religious now. We would like to be married in a church, just not for religious reasons. I called a Roman Catholic church and the priest pretty much told me he wouldn't marry us because we do not belong to a parish..... [Read more]

Do I need to invite church bell choir to reception?

We are getting married in a Catholic church. We have been members of this particular congregation for about a year. We have requested the church bell choir play at our wedding. They play for a donation. My question is, am I supposed to invite the entire bell choir to the reception. I do not.... [Read more]

Tuxedo for the minister?

I'm having an outdoor wedding at 5:30pm in the middle of May. The minister that is marrying us says he will wear whatever I want him to, but added that it is generally proper for the minister to be in a tuxedo on any ceremony after 4:00pm. I honestly can't remember a minister ever wearing a.... [Read more]

Cost of flying priest to destination wedding

My fiance and I are getting married in Thailand. I asked my family priest to be the officiant and he agreed. The flight will take 27 hours from his hometown. He is a large man and while speaking to him he added that he always flies business-class because of his size/weight. I can't afford a $7,000+.... [Read more]